We Can’t Shut The Fudge Up #superiority #conversation #powerofpause #stfu

It was over a meet up – or, in observing – where my first bro chatted with his new bff, a personal trainer who was hosting a home event. My bro’s sister and the PT’s girlfriend were there while I joined after having had dinner in the city. It was fun with new excited vibes … Continue reading We Can’t Shut The Fudge Up #superiority #conversation #powerofpause #stfu

Coping Mechanisms And Carrying Hurt Into Future Relationships #divorce

Coping mechanisms as side effect of divorces: Being miserable, inauthentic and ruining potential commitments. One day I met up with a beautiful, very clever and adventurous Californian girlfriend in Hyde Park, Sydney. I was so happy to see her; we met through my last date back in the day that we worked our tails off … Continue reading Coping Mechanisms And Carrying Hurt Into Future Relationships #divorce

Why It’s Not In Vogue For A Guy To Be Human #socialstigma #sexualissues #rapeculture

Sitting at my beloved café facing the greens of my neighbourhood, I type out the blog ... feeling just a slight tension because the seniors are watching my focus and hearing me type. Good, I think. They need to get the reality of the times. We live on the damn keyboard. A newspaper tray holds … Continue reading Why It’s Not In Vogue For A Guy To Be Human #socialstigma #sexualissues #rapeculture

Magic Loved And Lost: My Mourning For The Sydney I Knew #triggered #identitycrisis

There was an article in my feed the other night which sparked my memory and a few big points about a city in which I used to love going out... and in a way, still do. The theme is… thanks to some crazy changes, the city lost its soul. Its spark. Its reason to be. … Continue reading Magic Loved And Lost: My Mourning For The Sydney I Knew #triggered #identitycrisis